

On the weekends, John and Sandra would join in on the activities, with the whole family on the tennis court or at the driving range. Sandra organized an activity schedule with the other mothers in the area and the neighborhood kids would take over entire ice rinks, tennis complexes and "goofy golfing" venues each afternoon. "It was well-rounded, from cotillion to mini-bikes and motorcycles and everything in between," Brian said. Sandra enrolled them in activities of all types: swimming lessons, ice-skating practice, golfing, dance lessons - the list went on and on. Spare time was to be spent doing something useful. There was no lounging when the boys returned from school. Sandra encouraged them, and at times forced them, to remain active and involved. The O'Connor boys walked to and from school each day, often with a musical instrument or gym bag in tow. "It wouldn't be legal today, but it was her idea," Scott said. She brokered a deal to work two-thirds time, for half pay. But she wanted to be home when the boys arrived home from school. In 1965, she landed a job as the assistant attorney general for Arizona. "She said the only way she'd be able to extricate herself from all of those other commitments was to actually go back to full-time work," Jay said.
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She also provided pro bono legal services for indigent clients. Her children laugh at the idea that it was her "time off." On top of caring for three small boys, she volunteered and led several civic and social organizations, including the Junior League of Arizona and the Maricopa County Young Republicans. Sandra took a five-year leave from the legal profession after Brian's birth. The boys shared a small bedroom with a bunk bed for Scott and Jay, and a single bed for Brian. Her next two sons were born in meticulously planned two-year intervals, Brian in 1960 and Jay in 1962. The house itself was modest in size but opened up to a stunning landscape that would someday be transformed into a desert playground for the neighborhood's youth. Soon after, they bought a lot in not-yet-incorporated Paradise Valley, and Sandra insisted on designing an adobe home. They rented an apartment near 19th Avenue and Camelback Road, where, that same year, they welcomed their first son, Scott. On the side of the road in Florence Junction, John won the argument. After a visit to the Lazy B Ranch in Duncan, the cattle ranch where Sandra was raised and her family still lived, they started west in the VW Beetle, still bickering about where they should put down roots.
